Don and I were discussing adjustments yesterday as we ate breakfast. I had heard from others that when a husband retires it also affects the wife. I kinda pooh-poohed it, but it is true. I told him that I’m still trying to find my center.
I love having him home with me. He’s transformed–like a huge weight has been lifted from him. He has his own agenda and keeps busy. The rain hasn’t helped his Honey-Do list of ranch chores. My adjustment will be get things done instead of watching him.
I think the big difference here is that Don had a plan when he retired. He has things to do and an idea of how he wants to get them done. Most retirees don’t have a plan, or they expect their partner to hang with them but don’t bother to tell the partner about this genius idea.
Thanks, Margaret!
You are right about his plan, but the man hardly goes anywhere without a plan-A, B & C!
At least he has a plan. My dad had one when he retired, but my mom didn’t. Finally she took up hooking. No, you naughty people! Not THAT kind of hooking! She learned to hook rugs.
LOL, Jackie!
Don’s father did some beautiful rugs that we still use!